Happy New Years Eve! 2013 has been a good year for our family....if I'm honest with myself it has probably been one of our better years in our almost 7 year marriage! Other years I've ended feeling disappointed or depressed by all that I didn't accomplish in my life or in our family, this year I'm feeling pretty great! A huge part of that has to do with the fact that I finally began learning how to control myself emotionally and physically. I began taking control of my health by eating better, exercising daily, and calming down about all the small things that I tend to stress and lash out about.
Although the last month hasn't been full of jogging and carrot sticks, I'm proud to say that most of the year did consist of a lot of that! I've been learning how to lean on Jesus instead of chocolate when it comes to the stresses of life. Have I done everything perfect? Nope! Have I lost a massive amount of weight? Nah...only about 30 pounds and I may have gained a few back this past month... Am I happier and more at peace than ever? Yes! A million times yes! Do I have a little more patience with my princesses than I did at this time last year? Absolutely! Do I have a LONG way to go? Definitely!
This is why I'm officially taking the Orange Rhino Challenge....for more information go to http://theorangerhino.com/join-me/....this is basically a challenge to control yourself and quit yelling...this is a huge step for me because even though I feel more in control of my emotions than I ever have....I still YELL at my children! As of today, I am taking the challenge to not yell at the princesses for 365 days. Don't worry! There will still be discipline...it will just start happening in a more loving way than a constant yell. Not sure about y'all, but I don't respond very well to being yelled at. If I don't respond well, then how can I expect my children to take it.
I will be updating atleast monthly on how the challenge is going. I'm hoping that by the end of 2014, my yelling will be a distant memory to my kids and that we will have an even more loving home than we already do! I believe with God's help and your prayers I can do it! I'm excited to take the challenge!!!
Happy 2014!!!